As I told you in a previous post I would be sharing a
variety of things in upcoming posts. As
indicated the past year has been one of grief for Dwight and I. The loss of the shop and the friends and
acquaintances made during the 17 months The Crafter’s Co-op was in operation has
been very hard for me. And Dwight’s job
loss was like a death for him. His job loss
was a calculated act by a group of people with absolutely inexplicable motives
to have so hijacked his stellar reputation.
The sucker punches dealt Dwight by this group was absolutely
heartbreaking. Thank goodness that our
Lord can heal all wounds, as we both continue through our process of healing. We continually pray for all those that have
so wounded us and because of that our healing has been steady in the process. You can not pray for those that have
inflicted such harm AND not have the Lord
ministering and healing all the recesses where the deep wounds of grief have
settled.
Focusing on the joy that we shared and the good we did in
the community for outreach ministries as well as the ministries within the shop
has helped us keep our focus on the Lord and His plans for us. And even though we could not longer serve in
Wylie, there are still many places where we have resumed serving in other towns
and that has been a blessing and saving
grace for us as well. We have done much
ministry and charitable work our entire time here in Wylie, as our life
together has been one of serving and that is something we can not give up, even
if we can not do so in Wylie.
As we are driving on our treks out of Wylie, there is rarely
a place that our eyes may fall that we do not see years of Dwight’s good work
that Wylie has benefited from. Our
fingerprints are all over this town and all the maligning can NOT erase the
good and positive things we have done in our community. My fingerprints and footprints (in every
creek in this area) have been scattered all over the community since I was a
small child. And Dwight’s contributions have
been greater than mine since he moved here in 1996. How can these people justify railroading you out of
town---your own community that is YOUR home?
Trust me it is very hard to have to give up and move under such circumstances. But neither of us can stay where we are no
longer wanted, where we can not serve and work, so we will comply to the
demands and take our leave and go, work, and serve in places where we have been
known and always welcomed.
As we were searching (before all this happened) for a much
larger space for The Crafter’s Co-op we had 17 places on our list of potential
sites. The more we searched, we began to
think that Wylie might not be in the Lord’s plan for The Crafter’s Co-op
relocation. And now since everything happened as it did, we
have come to realize that His plan was much larger and what has unfolded has
been full of surprises that only the Lord could bring us. As
hard as it has been, I am thankful that we stood fast and tried to be obedient
in waiting as we prayed for His perfect will for our future. And
of course we are continuing the same prayers to be in His will in all of this. Soon after I started My 57 Cents blogspot, opportunity knocked and I now have the chance to write about and feature many
artists and crafters across Texas
and beyond. I very much look forward to
this future endeavor of showcasing incredible talents in and around Texas!
Also, it seems as if what happens in Wylie does NOT stay in
Wylie as other towns and cities want what Wylie did not want. One town contacted us a couple of months
after the shop closed with an incentive proposal to open a much larger retail store in
their town on a major interstate highway and at a reduced rental rate—in fact
for even less than what we were paying here in Wylie. Another city has talked to us about opening
in their flourishing historic downtown and in that same city, one of the
developers has offered us a building to bring artists and crafters that are funding
ministries to their fair city—wanting the same concept we used in The Crafter’s
Co-op here in Wylie. These are exciting
opportunities that we are prayerfully considering and once we decide if and
when we can relocate, we look forward to see how the Lord is going to use and grow
this one!
We have been contacted by two other towns that have Trade
Days to let us know that Trade Day vendors are welcomed in their towns in case
some of our former crafters might be interested in a once a month venue. I posted about the Lavon 205 Trade Days and
since then Third Monday Trade Days in McKinney
contacted us too. In both cases, the
owner/operators were familiar with the shop and the popularity of the concept
and knew of our unfortunate closing of the shop.
It still saddens me that The Crafter’s Co-op as well as the
Stained Glass Shop before us was not permitted to co-exist with Wylie’s
Gallery. It was not enough to shut us
down, but why be so vocal about Wylie NOT wanting The Crafter’s Co-op OR crafters
in town? We found this out only after
the debacle over the Wylie Trade Days efforts to get an extension for future
Trade Days. It was very hurtful to think
that months AFTER we closed that they were then saying that The Crafter’s Co-op
along with Wylie’s Trade Days was “bringing trash into town”. It was a shock to think that THIS was being
circulated about our incredible little shop and it was probably at least six
months after we had closed! To this
day, I would beg to differ with anyone saying this about The Crafter’s
Co-op. It is such a hateful and shameful
thing to say about the people that made up our little shop and the customers as
well. There is not a single person that
crossed that threshold that I would have ever spoken such hurtful things. Our
shop was a bright spot in our little downtown and a huge blessing to Wylie. Wylie’s loss will definitely be another
city’s gain and blessing. And whoever is
spreading such hurtful things should know that such talk is only hurting
Wylie’s reputation and their own more than they are hurting those being accused
of bringing “trash into town”. The
Crafter’s Co-op and Wylie Trade Days are GONE so why not give up the trash talk?
I would think it would be in Wylie’s best interest to embrace
businesses such as The Crafter’s Co-op that are definitely family friendly and easily
meld with the character and integrity of what Wylie has been. I also believe that those in town that are being
so vocal and negative about what have been family friendly businesses here in Wylie,
should be encouraged by others to keep their opinions to themselves since it
certainly is not helping Wylie. The City
needs to remember that the majority of citizens moving to this little town are
doing so because it is a family oriented town.
Those questionable businesses that Wylie has started seeking and offering
back door deals are NOT the type of businesses that are going to be a draw for
families when they consider family friendly towns to raise their children. The agenda of a handful of businesses and investors
that are not citizens of Wylie should not be changing the face of this town and
bringing such questionable businesses into a town such as Wylie. City management may consider this progressive and profitable and of course, they
seem to think they know better what Wylie needs, but they certainly have stopped thinking of
what is family friendly for Wylie. The
question that the people of Wylie should be asking is “Why don’t they take
their agenda to the towns and communities that they themselves live in?” And another question to pose is “Why is the
Mayor and City of Wylie upper
management so willing and quick to compromise the integrity of Wylie?”